Fireworks. Cotton candy. Music to pull on the heartstrings. Smiles. Parades.
This is the time of year, in America, we celebrate #freedom, #independence, and #liberty. For most, this is a time of celebration and joy. Independence Day is the very core of what it means to be American. It means freedom. It means prevailing over adversity. It’s a celebration of the rights we have today because men and women decided the prevailing government systems of the world were incomplete and inadequate. We celebrate the recognition of human rights for the first time in history. We celebrate a government by the people, for the people.
On the other hand…
Crowds. Loud noises. Booms so big you feel them rattle your bones. This holiday is full of intense sensory overload children (and some adults) have a tough time navigating around.
It is hard to enjoy a celebration that is designed with everything that makes one feel out of place.
We want to ensure our family experiences all the same things as any other child. But we want it to be enjoyable – for everyone. My family believes the world will not bend to the needs of our family, so we must find a way to adapt.
So how do we get through this wonderful holiday in one piece?
I asked my son this very question and here are his tips and tricks to succeed.
1. Bring Headphones: One of the most valuable tools in our toolbox for this holiday is headphones. We keep extra earplugs in our cars for those who need them and forget about them. Headphones help dampen the noise-making this more enjoyable for our son. We bring these with us to theme parks, movie theatres, parades and the like. There are tons to choose from. We have found, that as our son grows, his preference and needs change. So here is a list of the 10 top headphones for travel that I think you will find useful.
2. Snacks: But sensory is often processed through taste. Snacks are essential to enjoying any celebration. Food brings people together and encourages fellowship. It often allows for the processing of sensory throughout the body. We like mints throughout regular days. But, for events like this, snacks with a crunch are great. We usually bring some form of water (we like to flavor it with either lemon or Axio – which helps with focus), some vegetable chips or caramel-covered apples, and maybe a nice fruit dessert to cool down during the hot humid night.
3. Watch in your car: We have celebrated Independence Day in large and small cities across the country. We have usually found a great way to limit crowds and sensory overload is watching the show in your car. We have a hatchback that allows us to lift up the back and watch in the comfort of our trunk. This keeps the loud noises, massive booms, and crowds at a minimum. We enjoy the show and have the ability to leave before the masses exit (I hate traffic) and avoid the crowds. With an increase in #COVID-19 cases across the south, this little tip is one of my favorites for health and wellness.
4. Blankets and masks: If you cannot watch the show from the safety of your car, bring a large blanket for the picnic and remember your mask. The blanket will act as a natural barrier from other groups. The masks will be added needed protection against the virus. Of course, you can always stay home and enjoy the show from your home (if you are close enough) or watch a broadcast of the show on television.
5. Stay with your group: This is smart advice regardless of the event or the current pandemic. Watch your young children who might wander off. Events of this proportion are notorious for nefarious characters. This is a great opportunity to talk to your children about “stranger danger” and work on social interactions with community workers like police and firefighters. We like to have a 2:1 ratio of adults to young children. When this cannot be done, you can always go old school with hug-and-tugs or backpacks with wrist connections. This will give deep pressure (when full of snacks) and help keep kids near.
With a nation in unrest due to the current pandemic and questions of how to process rights or man and rule of law, this holiday is even more important than ever.
I hope this Independence Day is safe and fun for everyone – no matter how you celebrate it. I would love to hear how you help your little ones get through events like this. Send in your tips. And let this be a year we truly appreciate the long history of freedom, liberty, and bravery Independence Day honors. Thank you to all the servicemen and women who make it possible for us to have freedom of speech, freedom of the press, and the numerous other freedoms our country allows for all its citizens.